I just now have to keep myself still healthy and make sure to eat and get the nutrients that my body was lacking.
TJ was telling me tonight that I am more myself now, I was running a high fever last night and until about one this afternoon and after my long nap I woke up refreshed (still a little sore mind you) and ready to go! I even started cleaning the house --which TJ did a great job on keeping it not...unbearable for me; haha, he is a GREAT guy!
Well, also good news is last night when I was running my high fever and home alone just in miserable pain around 8:30 -which was the usual time TJ got home from work- I see my knight in shinning armor walk through our humble abode run and give me a big warm comforting hug. It really was just what I needed- I already missed out on so much that day and nobody was around to help me out- He first told me that his shift switched and now he will be working the same schedule as I -YAY!!!!!! But at the time I just cried a happy...joyful...and painful set of tears. I was so happy that the switch was finally made, I was begging for this for a while! So what even made it better is he pulled out some lotion that he won at work (I know, weird prize) and he picked LOVE SPELL (which is my all time favorite scent ) -he said he picked it out for me, thinking I needed another bottle to add to the overgrowing collection ;) -
So, he sat there with me as I was a baby as always and rubbed my feet. (His mom taught him really well!) I have loved him since we started talking over a year ago in April when we were bound together by an English assignment, he would Skype type me a lot at night and he treated me like a real princess.
Well, funny (and I don't mean funny-haha) thing now is that I am recovering from my sickness, TJ has come down with something. That something we are not yet aware of but he has an unsettled stomach and a lower than normal temperature. So I have been trying to be the good wife and help him out.
Ever since I was little I have known that when I throw up...I am on my own, I have to clean it up by myself. Now in no way was my mom a bad parent...we just didn't want more than one person puking their guts out and that is what would happen if my mom were present.
Well, I was in the bathroom one night and of course I shut the door and did my thing when all the sudden TJ comes in and starts rubbing my back (sweet, I know) but I of course choke out the words 'get out I don't want you seeing this' and since that time he has understood (until we went to Lagoon and I threw up in a trash can in front of a big crowd-talk about embarrassing)
I am saying this because I am glad he is going to be the good parent who tends to there kids who are throwing up everywhere per the lack of a stomach of the mother ;)
Man, thinking of it I don't know how we are going to survive as parents; with throw up and pooped on...I cant even handle baby drool!!!!!!
Well anyways, I am glad he can handle children for one and handle the messes they come with as well. It has been a long rough two weeks but I am so grateful my hubby was at my side as much as time permitted and yet went to work to provide an income for us. He surely is a blessing from Heaven and I don't think I could have made it the two weeks without him helping out with cleaning and making me as comfortable as possible. I love him with all my heart and count my lucky stars but more importantly I thank Heavenly Father for preparing this special young man to take care of this princess!
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